a babymoon

Babymoon – what and why?

A babymoon is a vacation that a couple takes together before their baby is born. The idea behind a babymoon is to enjoy some quality time and relaxation together before your life changes forever. During a babymoon, you can leave all the stress and worries behind and focus completely on each other and the arrival of your little one.

A babymoon has several advantages. First of all, it’s the perfect opportunity to relax. Pregnancy can be tough, and it’s important to take some time for yourself and unwind every now and then. A babymoon allows you to get away from the daily hustle and bustle and find some peace. Additionally, a babymoon is also good for your relationship. With all the hustle and stress of preparing for the baby and planning the delivery, your relationship might feel strained. A babymoon gives you the chance to take some time for each other and enjoy each other’s company.

Finally, a babymoon is simply a lot of fun! Creating new memories together and discovering new places is always a great idea. Moreover, it’s likely the last time you’ll go on vacation as a couple before your family expands.

The best time for a babymoon

The best time for a babymoon is during the second trimester of pregnancy, between the 14th and 28th week. During this period, most pregnancy complaints, such as morning sickness and fatigue, have usually subsided, while the belly is not yet too large to travel comfortably. Moreover, the second trimester is often when you feel your best and have more energy than in the first or third trimester.

In the first trimester, traveling can be quite exhausting, as many women experience morning sickness and fatigue. In the third trimester, the belly size may have significantly increased, making travel less comfortable.

It is always advisable to discuss your babymoon plans with your midwife or gynecologist to determine if it is safe to travel and if there are any other considerations to take into account.

What should I pay attention to when planning a babymoon?

When choosing a destination for your babymoon, there are several factors to consider. I’ve listed them for you below.

The journey

Choose a destination that isn’t too far away, so you don’t have to make a long and exhausting journey, and consider whether you prefer to fly or travel by car.

By plane

It is important to know that flying is generally safe during pregnancy, but there are a few things to keep in mind. First, it’s important to note that most airlines allow pregnant women to fly until 36 weeks of pregnancy. However, this can vary, so always check the airline’s rules before booking a ticket. If you are pregnant, there is also a slightly increased risk of thrombosis. Therefore, it’s important to get up and walk around regularly during the flight and to drink plenty of water.

Something you definitely don’t want to forget if you’re pregnant and planning to fly is a ‘fit to fly’ certificate, which the airline may ask for. This is a medical statement from your doctor confirming that you are healthy enough to travel. The requirements for a fit to fly certificate vary depending on the airline and destination. That’s why it’s important to check your airline’s policy before flying, but in most cases, a fit to fly certificate is required if you are more than 28 weeks pregnant.

You can obtain a fit to fly certificate from your general practitioner or gynecologist. It’s important to arrange this certificate in advance so that you’re not caught off guard on the day of your flight. Make sure the certificate includes all the necessary information, such as your due date and any complications you may have experienced during your pregnancy.

By car

Traveling by car during pregnancy can be a good alternative to flying because you have more control over your trip and pace. However, there are a few things to keep in mind to ensure a safe and comfortable journey. If you are pregnant, it’s important to stop regularly to rest and move around. Plan your trip in advance and take sufficient breaks along the way to walk, stretch, and hydrate. Just like during flights, there is also a risk of thrombosis if you sit still for too long in a car. Therefore, it’s important to move around regularly and drink plenty of water during the trip to stimulate circulation and reduce the risk of thrombosis.

The Zika virus

This virus is transmitted through mosquito bites and can have serious consequences for pregnant women, including birth defects in the baby. That’s why it’s important to avoid destinations where Zika is present. Before choosing a destination, check whether there is a risk of Zika, and consult your midwife or gynecologist for advice if needed. It’s also important to take proper precautions during your stay to prevent mosquito bites, such as wearing protective clothing and using insect repellent.

Climate

Pay attention to the climate of your destination. Some countries have certain seasons that can be very hot, cold, or rainy, which may not be comfortable during pregnancy.

Medical care

Make sure that good medical care is available at your destination, in case something happens during the journey or your stay.

The best destinations for a babymoon

Of course, every babymoon destination is personal and depends on your preferences, but below you’ll find a list of the most popular babymoon destinations.

Santorini, Greece

It’s the perfect place to relax and enjoy the beautiful views of the blue sea. The island also offers romantic sunsets and delicious food.

Algarve, Portugal

The Algarve in Portugal is known for its sun-soaked beaches and stunning rock formations along the coastline. It’s a great destination for pregnant women who want to relax on the beach and enjoy delicious Portuguese cuisine.

Mallorca, Spain

Mallorca is one of the Balearic Islands of Spain and offers white sandy beaches, crystal-clear waters, and a calm, relaxed atmosphere. It’s a great destination for pregnant women who want to enjoy the sun and the beach while also relaxing in a peaceful environment.

Positano, Italy

Positano offers beautiful beaches, a stunning coastline, and a relaxed atmosphere. It’s also the perfect place for romantic walks along the waterfront.

Lake Como, Italy

It’s the perfect place for couples who love luxury and romance. Lake Como offers stunning views, beautiful villas, and delicious Italian cuisine.

Sardinia, Italy

Sardinia is an Italian island with some of the most beautiful beaches in Europe, including the famous La Pelosa. It’s a fantastic destination for pregnant women who want to enjoy the sun, the beach, and delicious Italian cuisine.

Reykjavik, Iceland

Reykjavik is a charming city with a vibrant atmosphere, stunning landscapes, and many natural hot springs. It’s a great destination for pregnant women looking for adventure and wanting to experience the magic of the Northern Lights.

Dubrovnik, Croatia

Dubrovnik is a beautiful city with medieval walls, narrow streets, and stunning views of the Adriatic Sea. A fun option is a road trip from Dubrovnik. We did this during our babymoon, traveling through Montenegro and Albania, and then we took a week-long ferry ride to the Greek island of Corfu.

Prague, Czech Republic

Prague is a beautiful city with a rich history, stunning architecture, and a vibrant culture. It’s a great destination for pregnant women who want to enjoy romantic walks along the river, admire beautiful old churches and cathedrals, and savor delicious food.

It’s important to remember that a babymoon doesn’t have to be expensive or far away. It can also be great to take a weekend trip to a nearby city or to choose a stay within your own country. Ultimately, it’s about spending time together and relaxing. Therefore, here’s a list of the best babymoon destinations in the Netherlands:

Amsterdam

Amsterdam is the perfect destination for couples who love a vibrant city. You can enjoy a boat tour through the canals, visit museums, indulge in delicious food, and go shopping.

Maastricht

Maastricht is a lovely city in the south of the Netherlands, close to the Belgian border. It boasts beautiful historical architecture, cozy cafes and restaurants, and plenty of shops.

Texel

Texel is the largest Wadden Island in the Netherlands and is a fantastic destination for couples looking to relax and enjoy nature. The island features beautiful beaches, dunes, and forests, making it perfect for lovely walks and bike rides.

Giethoorn

Giethoorn is a beautiful village in the north of the Netherlands, also known as the “Venice of the Netherlands.” It is famous for its waterways and traditional houses, making it a great destination for couples who enjoy a peaceful setting.

Zandvoort

Zandvoort is a popular seaside resort with beautiful beaches and a lively atmosphere. It’s a great destination for couples who want to enjoy the sun, sea, and sand.

A few extra tips for a successful babymoon

Avoid too much sun

Sunbathing during pregnancy can increase the risk of developing a pregnancy mask (melasma). This is a pigmentation disorder that causes dark spots on the face, especially around the cheeks, nose, and forehead. That’s why it’s important to use a high-SPF sunscreen while in the sun and to wear a hat or sunglasses to protect your face. You might also choose to stay in the shade.

Make sure you always have your midwife’s phone number with you.

You never know. It’s also important to bring your pregnancy card with you. This card contains important information about your pregnancy, such as medical details like your blood type (and also your midwife’s phone number).

Travel insurance

Make sure to take out travel insurance that covers any costs if something happens during your trip. Also, check whether the insurance covers any expenses related to pregnancy and childbirth.

Diving

Diving is not recommended at all during pregnancy.

Bagage

Try not to bring too much luggage so you don’t have to lift too much.

Health

Make sure you are healthy before you travel. If needed, consult your midwife or gynecologist for advice on vaccinations and medications that are safe during pregnancy.

Hygiene

During your pregnancy, it’s important to be extra careful with hygiene, especially in distant tropical countries. Due to a lowered immune system, you are more susceptible to diarrhea, which can lead to dehydration.

Rest & Comfort

Make sure to schedule enough time to rest and relax during the trip. Also, choose comfortable clothing and shoes so you can travel and enjoy activities comfortably.